Life with Dad

Caring for someone with dementia, you have to laugh to keep from crying.

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This blog is a reflection on being a member of the "sandwich generation". We are those sandwiched between aging parents who need care and/or help and their own children. After an extensive remodel of our house, we moved my parents in with us. Dad has Alzheimer’s, which adds complications to the situation.

Monday, September 20, 2004

Weight

I've been concerned for some time about Dad's weight. He is less than 5'8" and weighs more than 175 pounds. I've enlisted the aid of the home care attendent to reduce his calorie intake since getting him to exercise is impossible. Of course, anytime we aren't around, Mom sabotages the effort by giving him whatever he wants.


I haven't said anything about weight in front of Dad, but last night he was talking about it.


"I am over weight, but I'm not obese."

"I have lots of blubber."


Comments like these, with no mention of doing anything about it. I wonder where this idea came from.

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