Life with Dad

Caring for someone with dementia, you have to laugh to keep from crying.

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Location: Texas

This blog is a reflection on being a member of the "sandwich generation". We are those sandwiched between aging parents who need care and/or help and their own children. After an extensive remodel of our house, we moved my parents in with us. Dad has Alzheimer’s, which adds complications to the situation.

Thursday, September 16, 2004

Confusion reigns

Dad obviously hasn't been able to keep up with days of the week for some time. Now Mom is getting confused. We've been eating out on Thursdays for several years. This week, when I came home Tuesday evening, Mom had gotten Dad ready to go out to eat in his special "out to eat" clothes--a white shirt without any stains, clean pants, dress socks, and shoes instead of house slippers. I had no sooner gotten in the door when Dad started heading out. I tried to explain to him that it was Tuesday, not Thursday, and we were eating at home. Dad eventually turned around, sat at the table, and wondered why I couldn't produce dinner instantly after coming in from work. I don't think he ever understood about it being the wrong day.


Oh, well.

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